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My Aunt, Her Car And My Whiny Ass Attitude: How She Taught Me to Be a Better Person



i love the movies so much i don\u2019t know why like why do i love these white kids so much? ron with his annoying-ass attitude, wtf? hermione with her snooty little opinions that are always right, wtf? i actually hate harry so much in the early books and series because he\u2019s a real ole twat and is constantly like \u201Comg woe is me\u201D ALL THE TIME but then he really changes course i\u2019d say roughly when Cedric dies (goblet of fire is a real and very dark film) and then we see this maturity reside in Harry that I really appreciated because it felt authentic to see him humble in the face of death. though he had faced such hardships before with his parents, and had lived a life as an orphan, there was still that Leo-ness in him, the resilience enmeshed with grandiosity\u2026 you know Harry needed to mature a little before he could really do shit. before he could really fight Voldy. isn\u2019t that a compelling vision? the way we get ready for what life throws us is a very compelling thing to witness.


Snape was dope in an anti-hero way (even though Albus Severus is the worst name of all time) and it\u2019s fun to rewatch all of the early movies knowing how Harry is a total shithead (verging on \u201Cethical narcissist\u201D vibes) and misreads EVERYTHING (#justiceforsnape) to make it seem like Snape has a huge vendetta against his whiny ass when actually Snape is protecting him from Ralph Fiennes!!!




My Aunt, Her Car And My Whiny Ass Attitude



Notice how it says WANTS. This means, going above their needs. Fulfilling a need, might sustain their body and their life. But fulfilling their wants, might improve their perspective, and attitude. If they need 1 glass of water to make it to tomorrow, but they want 2 glasses of water, why can we not do such a thing? 2 glasses, might save this person, and succor their wounds.


The simple man, Everything you just wrote, applies to both spouses. It's a lesson that both spouses have to learn. Some husbands hate to be reminded of that. But it's just reality. Just recently learned in class about family health topics, where my professor, explained that husbands talk about wanting their wives to give them desire validation and exaltation, but why? Husbands tend to forget that so does their wife need validation and praise, He also explained and was reluctant to admit to the class, , that sometimes men get a 'big head" because they think they are doing something astonishing when they work outside of the home, but are not willing to stop for a minute to see all that his wife does, and that attitude leads to wifely frustration and disillusionment.


No it sounds like a pity party. Either you agree with her or you "don't have feelings?" Seriously you are saying "my husband don't consider my feelings, he doesn't show me he loves me" but you are not considering HIS feelings and all of the things he actually does for you, like taking you out to dinner. Here is my advice. If he does ANYTHING good for you (takes care of you while you're sick, makes you breakfast, etc. etc.) then appreciate him. There are a lot of men out there who would treat you like MEAT. Would you prefer that? I doubt it. Now if he doesn't do anything for you at all then you should just leave him and don't string him along making him feel under appreciated for his efforts because I promise you he has feelings too and all this "I want more" attitude is just going to make him feel terrible eventually if it's not already.


I have been married to my wife for 3 months and I get criticized multiple times a day everyday, it gets to the point that I do not want to go home from work and would rather stay at work. Nothing I do seems to be good enough and when I try to defend myself I get told I have an attitude. When she makes a mistake she seems to have an excuse but when I make a mistake I have issues and get more criticism. I love her but I do not know how much more I can take. It can get so bad that I feel like I am about to have an anxiety attack and that is something I never had an issue with before. There are days I want to leave but I do love her. I have talked with her about this but she still keeps doing it. I feel stuck and unhappy at times.


this give me hope, I own my home cause my narc partner and I are not married, he never can keep a job because of his lovely attitude, and so i am the reason he even has a roof over his head, he has been using me and sponging off me for years. I have been telling him since i was pregnant with my first child 6 years ago to get out, and he wont. I have really pleaded with the guy to leave the last 2, with detachment, with begging, with calling out to god. he wont leave, like some kind of ultimate final act of abuse, he knows I run my dog sitting business out of my home and I would literally have to end my income to leave my home, and why would I leave my own home? I own it outright. we have 2 kids and have been together almost 14 years. your story gives me courage I can leave.


All of this is having an effect on tourist numbers. Sure they may not have the same access to guns which other Caribbean countries have and the murder rates are lower, but the crimes the scams the general attitude prevails and it is having a knock on effect.


Background: The client, Jenine, is the caregiver of her grandson, Brice. Jenine is meeting with a counselor from the Indian Health Service to review Brice's Medical Summary Report for the first time. In a prior session, Jenine confided that she felt overwhelmed. Knowing how detailed a Medical Summary Report can be, the counselor suggested that Jenine bring trusted family members and elders to this session. Together they arranged for Jenine's sister, aunt, and an elder to attend. 2ff7e9595c


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